I really don't have anything specific to talk about tonight....I just wanted to type. I just wrote on my Facebook about how I appreciate a man who looks out for a woman's virtue by warning her about things, including certain places, and certain people. It really shows their character. I very recently got into the blues scene, which, if you know anything about blues in the least, it can be a very raunchy and sexy scene to be in, filled with drugs, drinking, and...you guessed it....sex. I have had two men (and I am very correct in calling them men as their actions have led me to believe that they truly are) warn me on two particular parts of this scene. The one said to be careful of my alcohol intake as that can very easily lead to other things and also told me about how the scene usually went...the other warned me about a certain guy who likes to take advantage of girls when they are in this state (to that I say, it takes two to tango). I absolutely appreciated and held a higher respect for these gentlemen once they told me because they were actually looking out for my better interest. Made me happy. =)
I began analyzing this today because there has been a guy that I wasn't too sure about. I have liked this guy so much for the past few years and apparently he has liked me. The only problem is that there are certain things that I will not do, including sex before marriage, and I hope to find a guy who has never had sex (ideally) or at least isn't a man-whore lol He also needs to respect my wishes of not wanting to have sex until after I'm married. I also don't like it when people get drunk...they tend to make complete morons of themselves when they have had one too many. Again, I would like a guy that keeps his alcohol intake to social drinking only and doesn't try and coerce me into drinking myself drunk. He's tried to pressure me into this, and to that I say, enough.
I know now that there are still good men out there and hopefully I will be lucky enough to one day live the rest of my life with someone who cares about me 100%. Thank you guys for bringing my faith back in guys and for looking out for me, I appreciate it more than you know. =)
A thank you to the few good men out there.
